Small Group Guide: 
Gentleness | Fruit of the Spirit | Part 8

Opening Prayer

Key Takeaways:
1. Gentleness Redefined: Gentleness is not weakness or softness—it's strength under control. Like a wild stallion brought under submission, gentleness is power submitted to the Master.

2. Three Expressions of Gentleness:

With Others: Gentleness isn't harsh (Proverbs 15:1)
With Ourselves: Gentleness isn't hurried (Matthew 11:28-30)
With God: Gentleness enables us to receive (James 1:21)

3. The Path to Gentleness: True gentleness comes through submission to Jesus Christ, not through self-effort. It's cultivated through a life-giving relationship with Him.

Discussion Questions:
1. Pastor Kyle defined gentleness as "strength under control." How does this definition challenge common misconceptions about gentleness in our culture?

2. "Most of us are good actors, but it's far more difficult to fake a reaction." What does this reveal about the true condition of our hearts?

3. What's the difference between being "busy" and being "hurried"? Which category do you find yourself in most often?

4. Read James 1:21. What are some things that prevent us from receiving God's Word with meekness (pride, familiarity, sin, etc.)?

Practical Applications:

Option 1: The Gentle Response Challenge
Identify one relationship or situation where you tend to respond harshly. This week, commit to giving a gentle answer when tension arises. Journal about the results.

Option 2: The Sabbath
If you don't currently practice Sabbath rest, commit to one day this week where you intentionally slow down, rest, and submit to Jesus' pace. Notice how it affects your soul.

Option 3: The Daily Yes
Each morning this week, pray this simple prayer: "Yes, Lord, I receive your Word. Teach me. Lead me. Show me your way." Keep a notebook of what God reveals to you.

Closing Prayer
- Pray for the Holy Spirit to produce genuine gentleness in each person's life
- Ask God to reveal areas where group members need to submit their strength to Him
- Pray for the ability to receive God's Word with meekness and humility
- Ask for grace to respond gently rather than harshly in challenging situations this week